Plus Size Cowgirl Costume

- What do you do when your level of intimacy has become stale?
My fiance and I are going through a rough patch in our love-life.. Sex, for us has now grown boring as it is always 'the same thing' and it sadly is. We have tried having sex in different rooms of our home, and it worked for a while but soon came to an abrupt stop. We have tried doing different positions, but some are too advanced for our weight and my knees that around this time of year have the tendency to lock and bring the worry of dislocating. This makes Cowgirl very difficult, plus his size is 4-5 inches when erect so, reverse doesn't work well for us. We 'do' doggy, missionary and occasionally woman on top. Oral we do, but he always wants me to sit on his face and that ... doesn't really stimulate very easily. Mutual Masturbation we have tried and it too grows old. Costumes? I would love to dip into it, but current income begs to differ. Seduction and Foreplay? He knows nothing of it and is partially the reason why our sex life has taken a downfall. I have tried dancing for him, but I feel a damned fool and feel very insecure about my weight, regardless of how he physically and verbally acts. I cannot leave for a week and come back, because even though we're all over each other with my homecoming, it's still the same thing and gradually goes back to being 'boring' and 'stale'. I honestly, do not know what else to do. Guys, Ladies... What do you do in situations like these? How do you bring that spice back? Giving Ten Points to what works best...

A Perhaps if you lost some weight and raised your self esteem a bit, sex would be easier. Oh, and try watching porn with him. Find out watch turns you both on and go with it. Sex in public can be a rush. Perhaps at night, pulled over on the side of a dark road. Just don't get caught though (the fear of being caught, of course, elevates the excitement). Also, seduction and foreplay are not just his responsibility, and making comments about him having a small weiner won't get you anywhere. Lastly, it sounds like you're trying to hard.